1 Jul 2011, 1:30pm
My Big C
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Get ready … get set …

… go!  Ever face something down with trepidation?  Of course you have – we all have.  My father always said that it was best to suck it up and get on with it, ’cause then it would be over sooner.  This was usually said with a great deal of panache and a mahanttan in his hand.

So here I am, with surgery a breeze and now facing the dreaded chemo to start on Tuesday.  Five months worth.  Will my hair come out?  Yup.  Am I gonna be sick?  Yup.  In fact the side effects include everything but festering maggots escaping from my ears.  Bottom line, there’s a lot about this I dread.

But then I think of all other people facing BIG EVENTS.  Imagine what the guys about to land on the Normandy beaches felt just before they arrived.  Imagine what the Black students felt as they prepared to register at the University of Alabama in 1963.  Imagine how those undergoing experimental, life-saving surgery felt just as they drifted off in the OR.  Did they want to get on with it so they could be done with it?

Maybe so.  And what awaits me isn’t nearly of the magnitude of those events.  So here’s the deal, Dad.  I’m gonna suck it up and get on with it.  And I’ll have a manhattan this weekend in your honor

1 Jul 2011, 2:04pm
by Marta Amar

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CHEERS!!!!!!!!!!

1 Jul 2011, 2:17pm
by Kathy Shanley Petfield

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A couple of helpful hints…bandanas tied at the back of your neck and boxed mashed potatoes!!! Hats are a fantastic fashion statement also. Be good to yourself. Plus…if you are like me, you will never have to shave again..how lucky is that???
love, Kathy

Thanks for the hints. I LOVE mashed potatoes!

1 Jul 2011, 2:25pm
by Susan Killian

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Wish I could join you for that manhattan…..and be there to cheer you on !! Maybe a quick stop by in late July/early Aug….bet you look fabulous in hats :-)
susan

You go girl!

1 Jul 2011, 6:12pm
by Jeanne Dannison Contreras

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Positive thoughts and prayers being sent your way. Your writing is wonderful…

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know of one person that had her hair shaved so it was on her terms and not the chemo. Just a thought.

Thanks, Sharon. Already on that one. But yes, in chemo, as in life, it’s about living on our terms not on someone else’s.

13 Jul 2011, 8:18am
by Debra Collins

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Judy, you are such an inspiration!!!
Praying for a speedy recovery!
Much Love,
Deb

 
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